So my girlfriend whose birthday is in May just started planning. Well, we might have forced planning to make sure everything goes accordingly and all necessary funding and/or gifts are in order. It is her 30th.
So either big party for a night or little party outside of Paris for a weekend. She thinks little party.
Skip to 1 week later and train tickets for the month of May are on sale. May has multiple Wednesday holidays and so everyone travels. We should get tickets. I call her to let her know, and she says this:
Going to Venice this month and then going to Thailand in April to fulfill my dream! So will be short on budget.
Right, so change of plans.
And now I am mad.
Maybe because she didn't tell me? It is still 2 months away.
Because she isn't doing it with me? Maybe, I'm planning 2 months in advance so I can be there and everything goes great for her.
But she's doing what she has always wanted to do, so why am I not happy for her?
Add this to my other girlfriend who is only in town 3 weeks out of 6 and I barely get to see. AND I'm feeling girlfriendless.
Or better yet, full of French girlfriends. See eachother 3 times a year and we're best friends.
Is this just adult life?